More about Myself

There’s something scary about being honest with myself. You’d think that being you would take less effort, less thinking, less time. But man, I gotta tell you, it takes a lot of work and time. A lot of self-discovery, a lot of learning, a whole lot of realizing my fears, my strengths, and my weaknesses. It’s been difficult to not let other people’s negative perceptions invade me. It’s been hard to not let disappointment or sadness encompass my thoughts. It’s been almost impossible to say NO to things so I can say YES to what matters.

And to be honest, I don’t think I’m ever going to “know” who I am and I think that’s a good thing. I’m always changing, always learning new things, always discovering, and on new journeys. But I do know a few things that will never change.

  1. I care about others, sometimes more than myself.
  2. I am more than willing to share what I know to help others.
  3. I love to shop at Target 😉
  4. I love finding a good deal.
  5. I love to learn new things.
  6. I get tired of things easily.
  7. I tend to be really bossy.
  8. I love cold weather.
  9. I love the beach and a beautiful sunset.
  10. I can talk about small business all day.
  11. I can talk about aspirations and dreams all night.
  12. There’s no better feeling than to inspire yourself and others to be better.

I’m learning to accept my faults and work on them to be better as well as utilize my strengths to help others. With 2012 drawing to a close, I always tend to self-reflect on thoughts and what I’ve learned this year.

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Wish List Wednesday No. 1

In light of the upcoming holiday season, I’ve been doing a lot of online window shopping. 🙂 But I have to admit that I can online window shop any time of year! So, I decided to include some of my wish list items in what I’m going to call Wish List Wednesdays (I know, clever title right?). I’m a weird shopper. If you see me walking around a retail store here’s what you’ll see and why Charlie loves and hates shopping with me. Lol!

So I’ll do my initial walk through of the store. I don’t immediately go for the first rack and then make my way around. I walk through the main walkway of the store, look at their visual displays, see what’s on their mannequins, see how they’re grouping their color schemes…you know, the usual. If something doesn’t “call to me” (as I like to call it) then I’m in and out of that store quick. <— That right there is why Charlie doesn’t mind shopping with me. But if I like what I see then I’ll start scoping the racks that I initially thought were interesting. I’ll carry everything that I like around with me and then after I look through all the racks I thought were interesting, I’ll plant myself with all my potential purchases somewhere in the store and analyze every piece I pulled from the rack. <— And that, ladies and gents is why Charlie hates shopping with me.

Disclaimer: This, however, does not apply to shopping at Target/Walmart/Supermarkets and the like. I like to walk through ever single aisle in those stores! ;P

Now that I’m done with that rant, let’s get to my wish list for this wednesday.

This wasn’t on purpose, but coincidentally all my faves are from Urban Outfitters this week. My 2 ultimate fates are the touch screen compatible gloves and the cross back sweater *swoon*

If you want to grab any of these great finds, here are the links:

  1. Key Holder and Chalkboard combo 
  2. Tiered Geometric Necklace
  3. Cool Blue Nail Polish
  4. Cross Back Sweater
  5. Touch screen gloves

 

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Wish List Wednesday No. 1

In light of the upcoming holiday season, I’ve been doing a lot of online window shopping. 🙂 But I have to admit that I can online window shop any time of year! So, I decided to include some of my wish list items in what I’m going to call Wish List Wednesdays (I know, clever title right?). I’m a weird shopper. If you see me walking around a retail store here’s what you’ll see and why Charlie loves and hates shopping with me. Lol!

So I’ll do my initial walk through of the store. I don’t immediately go for the first rack and then make my way around. I walk through the main walkway of the store, look at their visual displays, see what’s on their mannequins, see how they’re grouping their color schemes…you know, the usual. If something doesn’t “call to me” (as I like to call it) then I’m in and out of that store quick. <— That right there is why Charlie doesn’t mind shopping with me. But if I like what I see then I’ll start scoping the racks that I initially thought were interesting. I’ll carry everything that I like around with me and then after I look through all the racks I thought were interesting, I’ll plant myself with all my potential purchases somewhere in the store and analyze every piece I pulled from the rack. <— And that, ladies and gents is why Charlie hates shopping with me.

Disclaimer: This, however, does not apply to shopping at Target/Walmart/Supermarkets and the like. I like to walk through ever single aisle in those stores! ;P

Now that I’m done with that rant, let’s get to my wish list for this wednesday.

This wasn’t on purpose, but coincidentally all my faves are from Urban Outfitters this week. My 2 ultimate fates are the touch screen compatible gloves and the cross back sweater *swoon*

If you want to grab any of these great finds, here are the links:

  1. Key Holder and Chalkboard combo 
  2. Tiered Geometric Necklace
  3. Cool Blue Nail Polish
  4. Cross Back Sweater
  5. Touch screen gloves

 

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