Great Inspiration Resource

Charlie here, logos are my favorite exercise in typography, artistry, and working aesthetics in design. That said, is one of my favorite websites to seek constructive criticism and inspiration from our peers! There’s so much talent on their network it would be a loss for any aspiring or established designer not to register. Get on it and enjoy hours on end of clicking, bookmarking, liking, and sharing your favorite marks. Happy surfing!

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2011 Looking Back – How Can it Get Any Better

I’m going to have to do a series of new year posts. There’s simply just too much to fit into one post!

2011 was what I dubbed the year of CHANGE. There was so much transformation going on in my life for the good and the bad. Regardless of the outcome, I am so grateful for all the moments in 2011 that are shaping 2012 to be dubbed the year of MOVEMENT (thanks to one of my best friends Michelle!).

My favorite moments of 2011 (in no particular order):

  1. Buying our first home. We deliberately decided to buy our home before we got married so that we had a place to go home to after our wedding. And yes, after almost a year and a half of house-hunting, we finally found our place. Moving is always a pain in the ass and home upkeep is definitely different from renting but it’s so rewarding and beneficial. To be able to come home and not have to worry about packing up our stuff was a nice feeling.
  2.  Starting CO. Starting this business venture for the both of us signified a lot of different things. Simplifying (merging our businesses together), a new beginning, stepping forward, preparing for our future, and doing something we were passionate about. Everything we’ve learned in the past culminated into this business and we are so pumped for what’s in store for it. It feels like everything was purposefully laid out to create this business that is just right for us. We are beyond grateful to be able to pursue a career we really love.
  3. Our wedding. Forget 2011, October 8th was the best day of my LIFE. I married the most amazing man anyone could ever ask for. After over 7 years of dating, God finally united us as one. That day was absolutely wonderful, words can’t express how I felt that day. It was just beyond anything that I ever could have imagined. It truly surpassed any of the expectations that I could have had (and trust me, being in the wedding business gives you crazy expectations for your own!). Check out our same day edit by the talented Loyd Calomay Films. The days leading after it were/are even better. Being in a marriage is more rewarding than I ever thought it could be.
  4. Our honeymoon. 2 weeks in Hawaii, need I say more? 🙂
  5. Re-kindling my relationship with the Lord. I’ve always been religious (growing up in Catholic school). But as ashamed as I am to admit it, I drifted. I drifted FAR. Luckily in 2008, one of my aunts said something to me that knocked me off my feet. That day, I realized how far I’d drifted and began to cry – from shame, sadness, and anger. I told myself that I needed to get back down to the basics and needed to let the Lord back in my life. 3 years later I’m finally starting to feel my relationship with Him is getting closer. I know that it’s going to be a challenge but I’m continuing to work every day to learn more and to keep building the most important relationship I have.

So 2011, thank you for being so amazing. It’s difficult for me to let go, but 2012 is waiting!

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The Cookie Cutter Christmas

Cookie cutter by Wilton

Christmas! Some say that it’s the most wonderful time of the year. Though I agree (it’s my favorite holiday for many reasons), for some, it’s not so wonderful as it may seem. Extra expenses due to the holiday season, expectation of gifts to give to loved ones, personal analytical judgement and reflection on if you achieved your resolutions and goals this past year….I’m not gonna lie peeps, it’s tough out there. (Ok, this is getting depressing. I promise, I have a point!)

I know there’s a lot of added pressure at the end of the year. I’ve been doing this to myself for many, many years. I tirelessly try to work as much as I can to “make the rest of the year count.” But one thing I’m beginning to see is that all the pressure that I feel….that negative anxiety, that hole in my stomach, that need for extreme change because of the “I’m not good enough” stigma…is all self-inflicted and unnecessary. And it’s turning me into a Scrooge…bah-humbug status.

I’ve told a lot of my friends that if there’s anything I’ve learned this year, it’s that patience is truly a virtue. I used to be the type of person that needed answers now. I was the type of person that needed to fix things right away, get things right away, achieve my goals right away. And when it didn’t turn out the way I’d hoped, I came down really hard on myself. But then I realized that the high expectations I had for myself and the guilt that I felt for not achieving my long list of goals was so bad for me. It’s what led me to my Scrooge-ish ways and I knew I had to change. So my steps to healthier decisions and a positive attitude became the following:

  1. Talk to someone! Actually, let me rephrase that. Talk to people. People you trust. It never hurts to get multiple points of view to help you make a decision. Tell them how you’re feeling and what has happened to make you feel this way.
  2. Let it marinade. One of the worst things I am trying to fix about myself is impromptu decisions. If you take the time to let things sit, all while trying work it out rationally, then your decision in the end will probably be something you won’t regret. Trying to come up with decisions on the fly are never good because of different reasons – your emotions are high, your adrenaline is running, you’re not thinking clearly, etc.
  3. Pray. God gives me strength, and he gives me the faith I need to continue on in this world. When I feel hopeless, He is the best to turn to. And the best part is you have nothing to hide with Him. I’m truly blessed because every time I’m afraid, sad, even happy (but scared of when things might take a turn for the worse) He always gives me reassurance, hope, and a sense of peace. No matter what.

 The Lord is my light and my salvation—so why should I be afraid?The Lord is my fortress, protecting me from danger,so why should I tremble?

In due time, the answer we’re looking for will come. At this time of year, we see the carolers singing, the family TV shows full of cheer, the dinners with family and friends, and the gifts under the tree. We sometimes think this is how we’re supposed to act during the holiday season. But just remember, this isn’t what Christmas is all about. It’s a time to remember to live a Godly life. To give as much as you can, be thankful for being alive even through troubled times, and to celebrate life. Living and breathing is a gift in itself.
So don’t worry about that cookie cutter Christmas. Enjoy the rest of the year being where you are now and start thinking about your goals for next year!

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